You know how irritating and loud they are. You know how the topic of conversation is always themselves. You know God isn't right that many times. But still, you really don't want to hurt. You just want some peace and quiet.
You'll need an astral candle to represent yourself. The seven day astrogical sign candles are best but if you can get one, pick a coloured candle that represents you best. You will also want to annoint this candle with your astrological sign's oil. For the other person, you will need a blue candle (seven day works good) and some tie em up oil.
Either place a few drops of your astrological sign's oil in the seven day candle and then rub it in a clockwise direction around the lip of the candle. Light then candle and simply say :
"This me and my will."
Either treat the blue seven day candle the same way except use a counterclockwise direction or write the person's name on a regular candle from top to bottom and then annoint it in a counterclockwise direction saying:
"I mean you no harm,
I mean you no ill will,
I create no alarm!
But your ego must still!
No more bragging,
Let quiet be,
Of others be thinking,
You clearly now see!"
Light this candle and meditate on how you want the relationship to really be. If you want the person to leave your circle just start moving the candle away from yours and say;
"Good riddance to you,
From here please flee.
No harm to you,
From you I be free."
Do the spell for seven days on a Monday in the hours of the Sun or/ and or again in the hours of Jupiter.
For this spell you will need an Orange Candle, something made of hematite and some Coconut Oil. If you can get a hematite necklace it is best.
Write your name on the orange candle from the top down. Annoint the candle in a counterclockwise direction with the coconut oil. Place the hematite to the right of the candle or if it's a necklace, around the candle. Light the candle and say:
"Spirits of air and fire,
Burn away the cobwebs,
Eliminate the liar,
Remove the fibs!
Let me see clearly,
What I want dearly!"
Perfrom this ritual for 7 days and you can change your object of focus everyday or just stick to one topic. Do it during the Saturn Hour of a Moon day for love and emotion, Jupiter day for money and business or Mercury day for communications.
Blessed Be!
Janice Scott-Reeder